Some of us may not pay much attention to July 23rd. But every time National Children's Day arrives, one thing seems to repeat itself: many parents start asking, "Have I been a good enough parent to my child?".
We have all felt tired, confused, and even afraid of making mistakes in raising them. Especially in this day and age, when everything is fast-paced and the standards for success have become so complex.
But amidst that uncertainty, Islam comes with very comforting guidance: that children have rights, and our duty as parents is to safeguard them as best we can.
Here are several children's rights as explained in Islamic teachings, complete with their foundations from the Qur’an and Hadith:
1. The right to life and to grow up safely
"And do not kill your children for fear of poverty. We provide for them and for you."
(QS. Al-Isra’: 31)
The right to life is not just about the prohibition against killing. It is also about protecting children from danger, violence, and even from excessive fear and anxiety. Children have the right to grow up in an environment that makes them feel safe, loved, and valued.
2. The right to provision and proper care
“…and upon the father is the mothers' provision and their clothing according to what is acceptable.”
(QS. Al-Baqarah: 233)
Children have the right to receive proper necessities, including nutritious food, safe shelter, and comfortable clothing.
Choosing clothing that not only covers the aurat but also makes the child feel comfortable is a small form of attention that means a lot. Such as choosing Naima Bergo Kids as an instant hijab to comfortably accompany their daily activities.
3. The right to be guided in goodness
"O you who have believed, protect yourselves and your families from a Fire..."
(QS. At-Tahrim: 6)
Every child has the right to know who their Lord is, to know their Prophet, and to learn to love the teachings of their religion. But the way to introduce them must certainly be with gentleness, because love grows from closeness and example.
We can start with simple things, such as making prayer time a long-awaited moment. One way is to prepare equipment they like. Such as the Wavina Prayer Set Kids, a lightweight mukena with a multifunctional bag that can serve as a prayer mat, featuring cheerful colors perfect for children.
4. The right to be treated fairly and with affection
"Be just to your children, just as you would want them to be just to you."
(Narrated by Bukhari and Muslim)
Every child has their own way of feeling loved. Some prefer long conversations, while others are happy just by sitting side-by-side. Being fair is not about giving the same thing to everyone, but rather about recognizing what each of them needs.
Sometimes small tokens of attention, like choosing something they like, can leave a deep impression. For example, giving a Wavina Al-Qur’an Cover as a form of appreciation for their achievements.
5. The right to be prayed for and accompanied
"And those who say, 'Our Lord, grant us from among our wives and offspring comfort to our eyes...'"
(QS. Al-Furqan: 74)
Every step a child takes is a prayer we tuck away. Even when they are out of sight, we want Allah to continue to protect them.
Perhaps we can tuck those reminders into small objects. Like the Wavina Charm, a cute charm from napocut that can be a companion on their Al-Qur’an cover, bag, or diary. It’s not about the item itself, but the meaning behind it that they are never alone.
Sometimes, small things are exactly what leave the most lasting impact on a child. When we remember their favorite color, choose a comfortable hijab, or a cute Al-Qur’an cover—not because they asked, but because we know it will make them feel cared for.
On this National Children's Day, we are reminded once again that our warm, gentle presence, full of effort even if simple, is what they need most. The kids' collection from napocut also comes from that sentiment, so that the small attention from us can be felt closer to their hearts and we can #WalkTogether (#MelangkahBersama) on every part of their journey.